by: xiaozhenxi2025年10月2日

My Love/Hate Relationship With Goodreads! –

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*These are my own opinions. I’m not singling anyone out. I just really wanted to rant a little today.*

Back when I first discovered book blogs, I discovered Goodreads. Even before I started my blog, I created a Goodreads account. I freaking loved it. I found out about a ton of new books and there was finally a way to track all the books I’d ever read! Goodreads seemed to be a book lover’s best friend and I was in heaven.

Once I started my blog, I started using Goodreads even more. It was a great way to connect with other bloggers and spread the word about my blog. It was also where I found pretty much all of my Waiting on Wednesday books. It was such a wonderful resource for me.

As time went on, I started to see the less pleasant side of Goodreads. For some reason, people decided it was okay to be rude to people as long as it was just on Goodreads. I have seen some horrible discussions on Goodreads. Personally, I’ve never been bullied on Goodreads but I’ve seen it happen to so many authors and bloggers. I don’t think any one group of people is to blame but I think we should all be responsible for fixing this behavior. If you met some of these people in real life, would you treat them the same way?

The rude remarks aren’t the only bad behavior on Goodreads. One of my biggest pet peeves about people on Goodreads is when someone posts a review without having read the book. Why would you do that? How can rate a book 5 stars or 1 star if you haven’t had a chance to read it? It’s really misleading to people trying to find out information about a book.

Also, if you have no plan to read a book, why even bother adding it to your shelves? If you didn’t like the first book in a series, there is absolutely no reason to add the sequel and put in on a shelf titled “will-never-read.” That just seems a little rude to me.

Last but not least, I hate spammers! Please do not try to add me as a friend if you have 2 books and 3500 friends. That is not the point of Goodreads. I will ignore your request and if you send me more than one, I will block you. Also, I have a friend request question. If you really want to be my friend, answer it. It’s not just there for kicks and giggles. There is a point to that.

How do you guys feel about Goodreads? Do you love it? Hate it? In the middle? What are the most awesome or annoying things about it?

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*These are my own opinions. I’m not singling anyone out. I just really wanted to rant a little today.*

How do you guys feel about Goodreads? Do you love it? Hate it? In the middle? What are the most awesome or annoying things about it?

*These are my own opinions. I’m not singling anyone out. I just really wanted to rant a little today.*

How do you guys feel about Goodreads? Do you love it? Hate it? In the middle? What are the most awesome or annoying things about it?

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